Morning Thoughts: Stud not Slut

You know lately, ever since I saw that stupid movie "What's Your Number"(yes that was lately, things here move slow!), I've been feeling both self-conscious and rebellious about these stupid social laws.

See I never thought I should be keeping count or that there should even be a given number that a woman should have, in fact as an (ex) serial monogamist I just thought I was falling in and out of love a lot. What could possibly be slutty about that?

Plus I was never one to have a bad rep, steal anyones man(NEVER!), wear promiscuous clothing or show my kuka on the dance floor(haha). It had never even crossed my mind that I was "supposed" to feel ashamed until I saw that damn movie(screw you Anna Faris!). In fact until hollywood got under my skin, well I kinda did feel like a stud.

I shamefully made my list, sighing back and forth and then I rebelled. This is bullshit! if I walk like a lady and talk like a lady then I must be one; and no stupid movie, or bizarre puritanical standards, or patriarchal crap is going to tell me otherwise.

So I did what any buddhist would do and looked to nature for answers. I have a theory that if you can find an example of human behavior in nature then it must have a deeper more innate explanation than "YOU'RE WRONG AND GOING TO HELL!!!".

Take Peacocks, for example, they demonstrate and make it easier for us to accept the idea of men wanting to groom themselves and feel like the attractive sex.

I found that I'm a type(as we all are) and my behavior is based on my type.

Just look at the Queen Bee, she runs that shit(like a Boss!). She's the Queen of her castle and come time for her to reproduce she gets to pick one of the many, many worker bees to be her suiter. Does she test them out, I dunno, but she kind of has the same vibe as I do. Strong, poised, elegant and kind of a female stud.

Now let's go back to Humans. When you think of Elizabeth Taylor, what thoughts cross your mind? I got Beautiful, Elegant and Poised. I never once got Slut. Yet she has been married several(several) times and has probably bedded triple that. Liz Taylor is kind of a Female Stud.

Jennifer Lopez.....Kind of a female Stud

Cleopatra same thing.

What I'm saying here is, slutty behavior,like stealing guys or being sloppy, has nothing to do with whether or not you get lucky(most guys don't even want those girls unless they're down to the wire) and vice versa.

Now all we have to do is coin our term or concept, like metros did with "peacock syndrome", so that people can begin to see the more modern perspective on the different types of women that exist.



So you see people, its all about the way you present yourself. Make your decisions with integrity, carry yourself with grace and always have good respectful intentions. Oh and before you go painting the town red, cultivate yourself, don't go relying on some guy to reassure you.

   Heres to all the Lady Studs!